Not Just an Option, but a Choice..

Somewhere between heartaches and waiting.. comes the chance to be found by someone who can show that you don't have to be just an option.. But a choice... sometime we have to think of our worth. We have to think that everyone of us has its soulmate. We can find the right person at the right time.

Difficult thing is the most rewarding...

Nothing starts easy... Everything begins at some level of difficulty. Even waking up requires certain efforts. But one thing beautiful about life is the fact that what is the most difficult is also the most rewarding, the most satisfying...

The Essence of Goodbye

Goodbye has its essence.. Whether you believe it or not, it has its ways to touch your heart. Don't hate it, but instead, cherish it. Because goodbye reminds us that everything ends, everything fades...

What is important is, we learn to say goodbye to meet again, learn to let go and find again, and learn to move on to love again...

Famous Line from the movie Twilight

"I wish normal people have a heart that vampires do. Once they fall in love, they never fall out of love."

Is this true? Will as I have seen from various vampire related movies, it seems that vampires do have only one love for the rest of their lives (but i think they don't die in time unless you thrust a pointed silver or anything into their hearts). I wish I have that heart so that I can't hurt women.

The Money Contest

Some years ago, a newspaper offered a prize for the best definition of money. Out of hundreds who competed, the winner submitted this piece:

"Money is a universal provider of anything but not happiness... And a passport to everywhere, but not in Heaven..."

Loyal Friends

Friendship is a special kind of love!
Flowers will die, waters will dry...

but a loyal friend will never say goodbye!!

Money can and can't

Money,

It can buy a House, but not a Home.
A clock, but not Time.
A Book, but not Knowledge.
Position, but not Respect.
Medicine, but not Health.
Blood, but not Life.
Heart, but not Love.

Reality of Pain

Maybe we don't want to admit how special something or someone is because we don't want to deal with the reality of pain when we lose it...

The lesson of love that takes a lifetime.

The greatest mistake that people do when they meet love... They try to posses it, demand it, expect it... And just like a wet soap squeezed in your hands, love will flee...

But if you open your hand, it will stay... For love is meant to be free, you can't change its nature... If you love someone, allow him/her to be free...

Give and don't expect, advice but don't order, ask but never demand... It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to practice...

Silence is a clue. . .

You don't have to defend yourself with your words.
Sometimes, your silence gives people a clue
that you have better thoughts in mind.

No reason. .

You love someone not because you want them to love you too.

But rather, you love them. . .

simply because, you found no reason not to. . .

Freedom. .

Freedom is something everyone wants to have at some point in time.
But then, we can't remain free always, because one day we'll realize,
to be with someone is much better, than freedom itself.

The Turtle story. . .

A turtle once taught me, that no matter how heavy his shell is, it's his choice to carry the luggage, for it is the only way he feels protected.

Hatred. . .

Hatred could be very consuming. And once you're consumed, it would be very hard to forgive. But forgiveness is the only way to heal.

God said: "Hate the sin but not the sinner."

Forever is not appropriate!

Quoted from a Political Science professor:

"take for an example the statement: 'I love you forever.' This is false, for 'forever' is not empirically quantifiable. The appropriate statement is: 'I love you today. Ask me again tomorrow if I still do.' "

Puzzle

Have you ever experienced a time in you life you felt so emptyfor no reason? Have you eve felt so down but you just can't tell why? Have you eve felt like the world suddenly spins around you and you are caught in the middle goin nowhere? Weird isn't it?But thats the beauty of being human. . . It is knowing that there is purpose for each existence. . . And whatever that may be, it is also the reason why we still wake up breath each morning. . . To discover the MISSING PIECE of the puzzle that would make our lives complete!

Don't Really Last

TIME and THINGS don't really last. What matters are the people we care about and the values we dare to live and share. Let life be as beautiful as your heart.

Life is. . .

Life is not something what you have but it's on how much life you touch and care. Life could be meaningful when you need less and it is a passion and a challenge to take when you share more than the things you don't have, because life speaks not of yourself but on how much you matter and value each life that cames in your life. Live to make others be inspired to live each day.

Love does; does not; Love is; is not. .

Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.

Einstein said. . .

"If your head tells you one thing and your heart tells you another, before you do anything, decide first whether you have a better head or a better heart. . ."

Leave or Go?

It's funny how sometimes you've been doing everything to get out of one place. And when you've found the tie to leave. . It's when you've also found a reason to stay. .

Pictures: A Thousand Memories. .

Looking at pictures sometimes makes our heart ache. Because pictures are just a mere glimpse of what it used to be. . It is sad to think that what you saw on pictures could only be something that would never happen again. Seeing faces that would only tell you that we used to have that smile with those people, but if you'll think of it, only time will tell if you'll ever cross your path again. Cherish who you are with right now, because what you have right now may only be. . . for a moment. . .

Fill the heart. .

Love not the out of need but out of the abundance of the heart. . Don't seek for someone who will fill your heart, rather seek for someone whose heart you can fill.

Where's the Spark?

Sometimes you have to stop loving the most important person in your life. Not because the spark is gone, but because that person is unintentionally making you worthless..

Life is Like a Tossed Coin. .

There are time that we experience downfalls in our lives. Seeing how cruel and demented people around us can be. But that doesn't stop us from realizing that every passing minute is another chance to turn our lives around. Life always has a bitter flip side, and it's never too late to toss the coin again.

Lesson About The Sand

The sand taught me one thing:

You can't hold too many things, no matter what you do to make them stay. . And no matter how much they want to stay, the wind will always blow them away. . So learn to let go and choose carefully which you want to stay, because like the sand, only those which are in the center of your palm will last. .

When to Stop...

Destiny belongs to the to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams and have the courage to pursue it. Don't stop when you are tired, stop when you are done.

Confess...

If we've got the strength and confidence to confess anything to God, why can't we simply confess to a mere human how we truly love them? Is it we fear? We fear of accepting the consequences? Afraid of knowing the truth that the friendship might lost? Surely we can't find it how if we haven't tried.

When Love is Present...

People are given the opportunity to meet the love of their lives.. Some unexpected, some through years of friendship, some by chance,some in an instant.. Only the few have the foresight to see beyond imperfections and take it wholeheartedly.. When love is present, it wont require how you look like, how you dress, how you are percieved but on what you become when that person is around. Learn to appreciate the people around you cause you might lose a person who cares for you the most..

Moving On is Never Easy

It's True that when you felt love and lost it, it's harder everytime you try to move on. You can't sleep and do the things you like to do. You always want to stay seated and looking back to those times you felt like you're the happiest person. Oftentimes, you end up going crazy. You can't explain what's happening to you. You can't help but think of him/her everyday, every night, and you can't just get over him/her.

With this goes one phrase...

Moving on is never easy, it never was and will never be.

Life is Like the Seasons...

If you give up when it's winter,

you'll surely miss the promise of your spring,

the beauty of your summer,

and the fulfillment of your fall.

Don't let the pain of one season destroys the joy s of the rest.
Don't just life by one difficult season but instead,
persevere through the difficult patches,
and better ones are sure to come, some time or later.

Trash is Treasure...

A man's trash is another man's treasure. Same thing with a man's misery is another man's happiness. So if you felt that you've been trashed of someone you love, remember that you are a treasure to someone that is more deserving.. than the one who left you.

Apple of Eden

Original sin was not the apple that Eve ate, it was her belief that Adam needed to share precisely the thing she had tasted.













Eve was afraid to follow her path without someone to help her, and so she wanted to share what she was feeling.

-Paulo Coelho-

Fit and Belong Together...

There are certain things in life that are naturally intended to fit and belong together.

- O. Henry-

When nothing is right...

If you look inside my heart and see how much I cry, you'll see secrets, promises and lies! But what you'll see the most is how I try to stay strong when nothing is right and everything is wrong.

Go back in time...

As I grow old, my realizations about life become deeper, problems get bigger, situations became more complicated.. Sometimes I wish I could go back.. Back to the time when the only woman in my life was my mom.. my only bestfriend was my dad.. And any pain could be healed by just a band aid and a lollipop...

Can you survive?

Human being can withstand a week without water, two weeks without food, many years of homeliness, but not loneliness. It is the worst of all torture, the worst of all sufferings.

Why trees are planted far from each other?

Being alone sometimes gives you space to grow. Sometimes it's hard to grow when you're too close to someone.

Remember that trees are planted far from each other.. So that they can spread their branches and mature..

Worry and Meditate

When you think about a problem over and over again in your mind, that's called WORRY.


















When you think about God's words over and over in your mind, that's called MEDITATION.

If you know how to Worry, you already know how to Meditate! You just need to switch your attention from your problems to Bible verses. The more you meditate in God's word, the less you will have to worry about..

Easy to Say...

It is easy to say goodbye but to hard to forget.

Why?


Cause love is more than words can say. Once you've fallen, you can't help but fall over and over again. So even if goodbyes have been said, there's something in the heart that says, "please stay".

Why?


Cause it's love. And the reason is unknown. Despite the pains and the heartaches, love will always retain..

Its pride..
Its sweetness..
Its mystery..